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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been both the girlfriend and the wife.  The girlfriend position is far, far better and not humiliating.  The girlfriend (or at least in my case) never gets lied to.  The girlfriend isn’t being cheated on.

Think about it:  when the girl friend’s friends see her out on a romantic date with the married guy, they have nothing to gossip about.  When the wife’s friends see the same situation, they do. [/quote]

As the girlfriend he cheated on you as he was married with a wife.  [/quote]

I'm not the PP you're responding to, but I was the OW and didn't feel cheated on at all that he was still having sex with his wife.  I knew all about her looseness and stinkiness, and I had to keep up appearances with my H just like he did with his W.  Shrug.  No reason to feel jealous.[/quote]

Oh honey, he told you what he knew you wanted to hear.  You are both liars.  These men have their face in it and are going for it at home all the time too.  He's not going to tell you he's happy and having sex at home because it wouldn't go very well.

It's like the men that claim to their APs that they haven't had sex with their wives in years---but she somehow keeps having babies.

And trust me, when he gets caught he's going to tell his wife the same exact thing about you:   you had a mustache that needed waxing, and cellulite and a pouch and didn't stay maintained down.  How he had to do you from behind because he would get distracted by your ugly face, etc.  Anything to appease his wife and make her feel better.

But keep believing you are so special in your cheating, lying ways.  [/quote]

Simply not at all true in my experience.  And calm down, PP.  You don’t know me or my experiences.  I stand by my opinion.  [/quote]

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