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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why you’re posting, op. Do you like your condo? You aren’t interested in marriage or living together so what does it matter?

Something about you seems… off. The condo is fine. Going to see your parents a lot is fine. Not cooking or cleaning is fine, though how you describe why you don’t do either reminds me of what addicts tend to say meaning they have no desire (and the key word is desire) to do basic life skills. 
You also mention privacy, and gain, the only time I’ve heard an adult mention privacy in that context is when they are hiding something, an addiction, sex with someone they shouldn’t have sex with like an underage person or a prostitute.. healthy adults just don’t phrase things the way you have.

Know too that the women you date don’t care about your finances, why would they, they aren’t gaining anything by simply going out with you and going to bed with you.  Same for your work, they won’t care how hard you work, it isn’t going to do anything for them.  
You do you, op, just know nobody has to put up with you. You aren’t owed a relationship.
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agree something is "off" and it's not having a 1BR condo. [/quote]

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