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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh. Who tells a child they were not wanted at birth and she was just an incubator? So disgusting and so harmful for that child. I was adopted and my parents always told me I came from love no matter how I was born into this world. I can’t imagine having you as my adoptive parent. My mom let me know it’s okay to feel like I may want to know where I came from one day, and she would help me find them if I wanted to. I did want to know who they were, but decided I didn’t want the relationship. But I do feel better just knowing my own identity in a way and I thank my parents for allowing me to decide that for myself.[/quote]

If you were conceived via rape, you were not from love.  Your bio mother gave you up for her own reasons and what difference does it make.  You have had a good life with parents who love you.  Be grateful and shut up.[/quote]

Most of us tell our kids things like they were placed out of love regardless of the truth.  Truth comes later.  [/quote]

Not most of the people I know. Most of us were honest and told our kids we didn’t know why their mothers made the decision they did. [/quote]

That only works if you don’t know.  Some of us know.  [/quote]

Of course.  But I was responding to someone who thinks most people lie to their kids.  Making up a story rather than being honest is just not what I’ve seen in my community. [/quote]

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