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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you can’t have your cake and eat it too. If you had just told your sister you and your family couldn’t come because your DDs cognitive issues make it difficult to find a babysitter, you probably would have been fine. But by traveling to attend the ceremony, it makes you look extremely petty for not just attending the reception solo and letting your DH chill with DD at the hotel. Lying to your DD about the reception is also not going to fly because the reception will certainly come up at the  ceremony or at some other point that weekend. [/quote]

OP here. I would think that if I declined to go to everything, it would create more drama. I thought by accepting all invitations that include my teen, I'm being supportive and supporting my sister. [/quote]

I posted earlier about not inviting a teen could be a venue capacity issue. Then I read a later post where your sister verbally invited your daughter then later disinvited her.  Only acceptable if they went from a larger to smaller venue which has happened in covid era.  It's extremely weird for any wedding to have more people invited to the ceremony than the reception.  Maybe other guests are in this strange situation.

Then you wrote that the young GC of the groom are not invited.  I can see no children but not no children for your own children or grandchildren. Bridezilla is a step granny to be not the blushing 28-32 ish bride.

Not surprised your parents are put off by all these examples of weirdness.  It's not just your nuclear family.  [/quote]

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