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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Love how guys think it’s no big deal for a woman to have sex with them on the third date but a courtesy call or text is way too much investment. This is not balanced at all.[/quote]

Yup.  Good enough to have sex with but not good enough to watch a damn game with.[/quote]

I mean, is it that big of a deal? Not calling would be more of an issue than canceling a plan to watch tv. What is OP really upset about? They had tentative plans and aren’t a couple. If the game was that big of a deal to her, or she wanted to be sure to see him she could have confirmed too. It sounds like things aren’t that serious. Sex is not a commitment. I’d be bummed it’s not taking off in her place, but I don’t think he did anything inherently wrong for where their at in dating. If she wants someone more available/attentive this prob isn’t the dude. [/quote]

I don't think he did anything "inherently wrong," but this would cause me to have my guard back up (woman, here). At this stage in the relationship, I probably wouldn't call him out on it. But I wouldn't call him back. OP, if you're really interested in this guy, I would wait for him to call. And I probably wouldn't sleep with him again if he's not putting in more effort. He absolutely could have called. And a guy who is really into you would have. He may be really into you down the line, but he's not there yet.

Now if you're up for just casual sex because it's fun and don't need to think about where it's going, call him back if you want and hang out. But it doesn't sound like you're seeking or comfortable with something casual right now.[/quote]

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