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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]10+

But he will never change because you ultimately came to the rescue. He should’ve face the consequences and embarrassment of picking up late.

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Aftercare was calling mom because it was closing. Not really an option in this scenario.[/quote]

Again, natural consequences— especially the ones that simultaneously shaft the kid - only work with mature, coachable neurotypical kids or people.

OP’s spouse had an attention and/or hyperactivity disorder he needs to manage better, as well as priority and planning issues, as well as communication issues. He also must be either s total tool at work that he can manage to leave before 5pm once or just so very very important and in a very very important role at a a very very important meeting that he couldn’t pick up his own kid or find a solution. [/quote]
oh ffs.. he doesn't have ADHD. What he has is "selfish dad syndrome".

He said he was in a meeting, as in, he knew, but the meeting was more important. Unless the meeting was a national security issue or life/death issue, he could've left.  We have dads on our team, and they have a hard stop to pickup their kids. No one bats an eye.[/quote]
FWIW, my whole life I beat myself up and thought I was a mess of a human until I was finally diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. I'm sure my parents thought I was selfish and lazy and friends and boyfriends also had some awful thoughts and judgments about me. I have a high IQ and I try hard as hell but I mess up sometimes. You have no idea what OP's DH's situation is. [/quote]

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