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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. DH is overall not a jerk and he was remorseful in this situation, but I don’t want remorse; obviously I want a spouse I can 100% depend on. When this happens, he usually stays on top of things for the next couple weeks then falls off again.

He usually handles pickup and I do dropoff since his job starts and ends early. He argues that since he’s 90% dependable, I should give him a break the other 10% of the time. We have tried therapy (three times over the years!) but I still find myself resentful and frustrated and unable to completely trust him. And now I’m just kind of sad. [/quote]

I feel like if you're working on a purely statistical model, he had a sound argument, but this is high stakes - assume your kid is at childcare 300 days a year - at that rate you're going to be running out of the house with your hair on fire 30 days a year. That's insane. [/quote]

There’s no way he has forgotten that many times or they’d be paying insane amounts in penalties. Our day care escalates the late fees significantly for repeat offenses. OP is grossly exaggerating.[/quote]

PP poster here -- I'm taking his own justification for a walk, it's not a valid justification. [/quote]

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