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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They want a housekeeper that they can have sex with on demand.[/quote]

Really? You’re telling me a wealthy doctor needs to marry a poor foreign woman to afford house cleaning??? Doesn’t sound like someone even remotely well off…[/quote]

Omg no. 
Many women in eastern europe are raised with the clear understanding that the man is superior. And everything they do is catering to him and with a haply attitude. Not like a paid housekeeper. But making all his favorite foods, cleaning daily, ironing clothes, hot breakfast on table, greeting with a smile and hair done and dinner ready when he is home. Never asking for any household help. Seriously. Im russian but not raised like that. My cousins were shocked that my husband washed dishes and changes diapers. It didn't occur to them to even see if their husbands would do any of that. [/quote]

And what's wrong with this?  If the man is able to provide a strong home, family, money, future financial stability, comfortable retirement...that's the deal right?  That is what SHE GETS for doing HER JOB because HE IS DOING HIS JOB.  What is wrong with that?

The issue you have is women in other countries have different priorities than you.  Since they are different it's wrong.  In their eyes you are wrong.  In reality neither are wrong. [/quote]

Agreed. The amount of generalizing and name-calling about a region of 200+ million people is astouding. I've lived in or traveled to most FSU countries. I speak fluent Russian. Age gaps in relationships are more socially acceptable. It's not always about the money. There just aren't that many suitable men. The average life expectancy of a man in Russia is about 68 years old, compared to 78 in the US. Alcohol is a big factor -- a lot of men die young due to drunk driving, getting drunk and falling out of a window, getting drunk walking and falling asleep in a snow drift, and so on.

Yes, the culture is different. Men are expected to be the providers. One woman I dated would never pay for anything, but would also never accept money from me. Even if I put her in a taxi home, she'd have me give the money to the driver not her.

I find it amazing people are being so critical of other cultures. No one is being forced to do anything against their will. So what if there's an age gap in a relationship as long as both sides are OK with it?[/quote]

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