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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just awful. I can't imagine causing DH's parent's to drive in the dark. You're sick of hosting and should stop. That's fine. But once you agree then you need to actually be hospitable. [/quote]

Um, OP understands the night driving factor and said 4 would be fine. Arriving at 4 = no driving in the dark. Are you slow?[/quote]

Still awful. She should not host.[/quote]

Hosting doesnt mean bending over backward for others. Its here is an invitation/event that starts from X-Y time. MIL keeps trying to change the event. The host dictates the event not the guests. WHILE the event is going on you are welcoming. I am not going to welcome people into my home at 10am for an event that starts at 5pm. Even if its *family*. We have the opposite problem in my house. I say what time works for everyone. We agree 11 works. I have food ready, drinks, etc. DHs Dad arrives at 1pm. No text. He wants to wait for his Dad to arrive. I will wait 20 minutes and then without a call/text we just go ahead. The first time I did it he came in 1.5 hours after the agreed meet time and said Oh you guys started without me.  :cry:  Its okay its okay. Dont make a fuss Ill just eat whatever is left.

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