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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it’s unfortunate that your wife has chosen to go down the path of being a loser (yes, I will call a spade a spade) and that you two have raised your child to similarly have low standards. BUT she’s still your wife, and you must remember your vows. Keep loving her in spite of herself. That requires to tell her the truth where it’s required (that’s she’s being a loser) but also accepting her as she is and being kind to her. It sucks, but it really will make you a better person. Abraham Lincoln was devoted as ever to his mentally ill opioid addict wife, and no one can doubt that he was a good man with sterling character.[/quote] Yikes. You only live once. Once the kid is raised, what you be the point of staying in a relationship as you've described it?[/quote] What’s the point of going to the moon? What’s the point of building the Taj Mahal? What’s the point of being a good husband to your crappy wife (probably the hardest and most noble of the 3)? You either have greatness in you or you don’t. Of course, most people are okay with being mediocrities or worse their whole life. But a lofty aim is worth having, and magnificently more than “the point”.[/quote] Why does staying with someone make you a good person? Are you saying divorce makes people bad people? That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Let me guess, you're a little league coach.[/quote] Did I say divorce makes people bad? Or did you? Being patient kind and loving to someone who doesn’t deserve it because you promised that you would take them as they are is a good act. Being faithful to that person and that promise. Being strong enough not to give into what your emotions tell you to do because you love that person and the promise you made. Never abandoning that person. Need I go on….These are all objectively good acts, and doing good will lead you to become a good person over time. What a small mind you have! Do you even know what a virtue is????[/quote]
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