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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, under the circumstances, I do not think it is wise for you to host a dinner party right now.

These aren't just friends, they are your in-laws.  They don't just drink socially, they are heavy drinkers.

I gave up alcohol a few years ago and have had social drinkers over with no problem.  We open a bottle of wine for them, but I just don't drink any.  But I am assuming your in laws will drink a lot more than that and it sounds like you don't expect them to be supportive of you not drinking.  I would cancel this party and get together a different time.[/quote]

I was a heavy binge drinker in college who joined a religion that does not allow alcohol.  I would not think twice about hosting old friends with no alcohol.  Most people think giving up alcohol is weird, but they won't try to sabotage you.  You should NOT try to make them happy at the expense of your sobriety.  I do offer lots of really nice mocktails, infused waters, sparkling cider, etc.[/quote]

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