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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the wife in this situation. I used to be attracted to DH, like 2x per day. Ever since we had children, I am just not into it. We have been having not great sex for the past decade.

I feel resentful for so many reasons. We have lost that emotional connection. I go from being slightly annoyed to repulsed. I never ever feel in love. The only times we have sex is when I’m half asleep so I’m too sleepy to object. I often feel like I’m on a bad date except we have 3 children together.

Most people will probably think DH is a great husband and father. There were a lot of guys I went on a date with who May seemed perfectly fine but there was no connection. When you are dating, you can part ways after a month or a year if you are not feeling it. One day, you get married and have a few kids and you are stuck with one another forever.

There are many moments I feel happy because of my children. I enjoy watching my kids play with their dad or when we laugh together and hang out. This does not translate into physical attraction to my husband.

DH comes from a divorced family and wants to stay married. I want to stay married for the kids.[/quote]

OMG this is the saddest post ever. Have you considered counseling?[/quote]

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