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Is it just a handful of posters who post incessantly about how cheaters are the worse? I don't get it. No one I know in real life harbors such seething resentment.

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Yes, I have come to believe there is one open marriage poster on one extreme and one EVIL CHEATING on the other extreme they basically argue with each other. Perhaps they are ex spouses.[/quote]

And a poster who thinks all fat people deserve to be unloved and celibate [/quote]

It’s not one poster.

A Gallup poll conducted found that 91% of Americans consider it to be either always or almost always wrong for married people to have sexual relations with someone other than their spouses, and in response to a separate but related question, 89% say that "married men and women having an affair" is morally unacceptable.  Unlike many sexual mores in American society, intolerance of infidelity has actually grown over the last two decades

Of course every cheater makes up some reason to justify it for themselves.  
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Many people also believe it wrong to leave a marriage unless there is abuse, addiction or adultery.  With the latter then, sometimes someone has to be the "bad" guy in order to call it quits.  It also creates a false good-bad / evil-doer-victim dichotomy because we don't live in a time when people can jsut decide that they don't want to be married unless they fall in love / lust with someone else.[/quote]

Ummm.  No. What frickin’ world do you live in?  Divorce is normalized.  But whenever cheating or an affair is the reason it is much more contentious and causes riffs through both sides of the family, out to the in-laws, BILs, SILs, kids.  It is much less likely to be conducive to everyone remaining on good terms after.

Grow some balls and divorce before you decide to start banging someone else.[/quote]

Banging someone to get caught and forced to divorce is like using a flame torch to light a cigarette.  It’s crazy[/quote]

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