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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't allow it. I agree that a professional photo shoot or something like that is more appropriate. [/quote]

Same.  I would never allow a 15 year old to make this decision.  I like the photo shoot idea, jewelry or other ways to memorialize this friendship.[/quote]

But what YOU like isn’t what is meaningful for the kids. Part of adolescence is making your own choices and part of our job as parents is to allow them the freedom to do so. To appreciate that they are becoming independent people with feelings, likes, and desires that may doffer from our own. A small tattoo, while permanent isn’t in any way a life altering thing. The girls have told the OP what would be meaningful to THEM, she old enough to walk through this with her friend, she’s old enough to decide how to memorialize their relationship. Telling her that she may feel differently about this in the future will make her feel as if you don’t understand and respect her feelings. You can’t keep her from being hurt or sad but you can help her find the other side of this with her soul in tact and your relationship with her in tact. [/quote]

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