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[quote=Anonymous]It was her birthday and she invited her friends. You were not invited.  That tells you everything about how she feels about you.  I'm sorry it is really hurtful and says a lot about her character.

I would see how the other women are with you.  Do they still invite you to their things.  If they do I would go and enjoy yourself.  Also continue to branch out and make other friends.

As for this one particular woman.  I guess I honestly wouldn't want to invite her anymore to my things if it were me, I would still be friendly with her in a group setting. Unfortunately this may create a weird vibe within the group so perhaps you could not invite her for your important events such as birthdays, celebrations etc but invite her for other random things like a simple lunch where its just a get together and has no significance or importance.  This is probably how I would handle it.  Don't cut off the whole group just because of this one woman, its impolite to tell people about invites where they aren't invited so don't hold that against them, they were put in a weird place.

I think the next few months will tell you how things will go, if the rest of the group stop inviting you along, then you know where you stand however don't automatically assume that will happen.  Continue to be friendly with this woman but I would consider it an out for inviting her to anything that is important to you.[/quote]

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