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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]If you have articulated to your future husband why this is important and he is dismissive, then i would see that as a big red flag.[/b] And I say that as a woman who didn’t want a ring, my future husband insisted and so it sits in a drawer. It isn’t about the ring. It is about whether he takes into account what is important to you.

I’m also assuming you are not insisting on something insanely out of his budget.[/quote]

This. Your inability to agree on this particular item is a sign of trouble down the road. How will you agree on paying off credit cards when one of you wants to pay the full balance every month and the other things it's ok to carryover the balance? How will you decide on where and how to buy a house when one of you wants to buy in a good school district for your future kids and the other wants to live in a place that suits you currently childless state only? I could go on and on, but the ring is simply the symbol of problems you will have down the road.[/quote]

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