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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]AP told me awful things when he broke it off.  We said “I love you”, but it was a game we both played.  It ended very ugly.  It was never true love.  We didn’t even know the “real” person.  I see this now, but like OP I was desperate to believe otherwise.[/quote]

That’s really sad. Important not to play games with people.[/quote]

An affair is all a game.  It’s based on a lie.  Anyone that willingly gets involved in an affair should know they are both liars.  It’s all a big game.

Nobody is themselves.  They are acting a part.  Only showing one fake persona, often nothing like who they are IRL.  FFS[/quote]

Games are fun. If you want to keep your marriage strong you have to learn to be playful together. This whole dichotomy of “real” vs “fun” is pretty stifling, no?

I’m not saying cheat. I’m saying let’s not look down on games and fun. This attitude is what leads to cheating, because marriages get stale and dull.[/quote]

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