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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is so much contempt on DCUM toward women who decide that adultery is not a good enough reason to divorce.  It's kind of scary.  I'm not sure what drives it. I mean it's OK to decide you can't live with this, and it's OK to decide that you can.  It's a personal decision.  But I don't understand the venom directed at women who decided that they can. [/quote]

+1. I would hope that DH and I would try to work things out, make amends, and forgive if one of us cheated. I think our marriage and the life we have built is worth more than one mistake. So much about this is dependent on the situation surrounding the cheating that I don’t think it’s possible to say leaving or staying is always right in every scenario. [/quote]

Is one mistake a one night stand? Or do you consider a 3-year affair a one-time mistake; if it was one person/affair?

I think the latter was many different mistakes with an opportunity to stop prior to every single hook up, so I think that’s many mistakes.

But a true one time thing/night in a 30-year marriage would be crazy if everything else is good.  I am not so sure about an affair. That’s a lot more lying, a lot more sex a much larger betrayal.

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I’m the pp, married 15 years with 3 kids and I truly love DH. If it was a one night stand situation I would not leave him. A long affair, I don’t know? It would be so painful. I think it just depends heavily on the people and the situation when it comes to cheating and deciding to stay or leave. I don’t think leaving is the best choice in all scenarios. [/quote]

If it was a one night stand with someone he would see regularly?

How about I'd he got the one night stand pregnant and she kept the baby?

What about I'd his one night stand  gave you an STD?[/quote]

Or what if he cheated on you with a clown? The kind that performs at children’s birthday parties?

How about if he cheated on you with Rihanna and you are both big fans?

What about his one night stand was your actual mother?[/quote]

These are all real ONS  cheating scenarios I know about, glad you think a women getting an STD is funny.[/quote]

Not to minimize the seriousness of stds but I think the first hypothetical situations are all actual plot lines on the tv show Greys Anatomy. [/quote]

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