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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][size=9]I hate my marriage and [b]we are in the middle of TTC just started seeing an RE[/b].   Just had a blow out argument last night...the same recurring one.  He is a slob, doesn't do much around the house and I eventually complain and he screams back about what I do not do.   He spends most of his time watching sports, playing video and online games and hanging with friends.  We have a 2 yr old and both work full time, I am the primary breadwinner.   I can't do it all and resent when I see him chilling out while I pick up after him, the toddler, the pets, fix things, make all arrangements, get groceries, do all the cooking, laundry except his clothes, etc.  His room looks like a scene out of hoarders.  I just took 4 missing sippy cups out of his room that are growing mold.   Stuff is all over the floor, piles of clothes, the baby can barely walk in there and he can sit in that chaos/filth and play playstation and watch ESPN.   He never washes dishes or cleans until I nag him at least 10 times and start an argument over it.  I say we need date nights to have fun together again and we never go anywhere together.  He just went to go see a movie the other night by himself.  He leave dirty diapers on the floor in our childs room.  I complain about any of this and he'll find something to through back that I have not done which is not surprising since I am overwhelmed and can't keep up with everything.  Or I'll name a laundry list of things I have done that week (while he cant name anything) and he denies I did any of it.   If he doesnt see me doing it I didnt do it.  But somehow the house miraculously stays relatively clean.  W argue he will do better for a couple of weeks and then back to normal.  If I mention it new argument.  I refuse to just do it all and not complain to avoid arguments.  I do not like the baby seeing us scream at each other as inevitably happens when I complain.   Things were great until we moved in together a year prior to marrying...as soon as I saw how little he did around the house the fighting started to the point I almost called it off  a few weeks before the wedding.  Living together showed me things I had no idea about which are still a problem to this day.  He takes no accountability for any of it.   I want to split but now [b]we have a baby and I do want another one.[/b]  I am miserable in this relationship.   Also [b]planning to buy a nicer home in a better neighborhood[/b] to raise or child but I kind of dont want to buy a house with him.  I would be putting all the money down for it and paying the majority of the mortgage.  I would be taking care of the home and maintenance mostly myself....so I feel like why buy a nice place that he will just destroy.   He yells at me saying I am a bougie b---- that thinks I am better than him and I yell back he is a dumb ghetto assh---.  Sigh.[/size][/quote]
Compare the bold versus every other word in the post.  Something wrong with this picture.  [/quote]

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