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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would take out extra life insurance on him, in addition to consulting a lawyer. Maybe ask him about his plans? Has he started applying for non fed jobs already?

It's probable kids will eventually bring Covid home from school and he will be much more susceptible than if he was vaccinated. [/quote]

I'm not a Fed, but I am a contractor.  We will also be required to be vaccinated.

I would start preparing to leave now OP.  Consult a lawyer, figure out what housing you can afford, and start making plans.  If this is a hill he is going to die on, he will be unemployed soon.  He will also contract Covid soon.[/quote]

I wonder if it would be eye opening for him to do some family/financial planning with him about the cost of quitting - what benefits will you/he lose - health insurance, disability, sick leave, pension and contribution, vacation days, etc.  How much will it cost to pay for these when he quits? What would the impact be if he gets sick - like what is the best health insurance pal. and what deductibles and coinsurance and OOP has to be paid?  If he gets fired for not taking the vaccine will that adversely affect his ability to get employed elsewhere?  Where can he work that isn’t (eventualy) going to require a vaccine? 
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DP. This is a good idea. With my DH I’d have to approach something like this without apparent prejudgment. Resignation might be okay - if this is going to happen, let’s plan for it, vs you crazy fool look what your pride will cost us.  My DH can be insanely stubborn and will fight me on anything I try to push on him, but if he has time to think about things for a while on his own he often comes around.  [/quote]

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