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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Adults do.  Similar to alcoholics.  They hide and perform all of the time - when out of the house or dating. [/quote]

? ASD is a developmental disorder, not addiction. Manipulation and masking is not part of the description! When Dr Asperger defined Aspergers Syndrome, he was describing a group of children so disabled by their social deficiencies that being systemically killed by the Nazis was on the table. These people have the intellect to perform, but have significant social deficiencies. They don’t have the social intelligence all day long or “trickg” people into marriage. If you’ve actually interacted with a high-functioning person, you’ll find that they say dumb and offensive  things to their spouse AND their boss. But not like, calling someone expletives. More like, hey that dress doesn’t look good on you. Why did you buy it? [/quote]

Be grateful you don't have to be subjected to the abuses.  You can't speak for someone else's hell.[/quote]

I am grateful..  I can say just as confidently that  these abuses are not due to autism. But I do understand the need to “defend” a spouse with a label instead  of confronting the truth that the person CAN choose to come home and be kind, but chooses not to.  But facts are that victims often defend abusers .The bee in my bonnet is that instead of recognizing this, people malign a group that has... a disability! It’s just so sad on so many levels.[/quote]

Why are you pretending to know who has a disability and who does not? You sound crazy.[/quote]

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