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[quote=Anonymous]Men are either okay with their wife being a SAHM or they are not okay with it -- while you are still dating and talking about marriage. OP, what did your husband tell you back then about how he pictured your life with kids? Did you ask? If he told you before marriage that he expects 50/50 equal financial contribution with a family until you both retire, then this is the mindset you married, the set-up you said "yes" to as he put a ring on it. Your DH may never change his mindset because it's baked into the wedding cake. He might be resentful if you don't work. You have to find out.[/quote]
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