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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to add - as a people-pleasing female, sometimes to my own detriment, I have to disagree that it would’ve been hard for her to outright reject him without fearing negative consequences or awkwardness. I would’ve just been gracious and kind when I declined: “I understand why you thought to ask me but I haven’t been single in a long time - I’m in a rserious relationship. If you’d like I can try to connect you with one of my single friends who might have some good tips.” So, I’d take his request at face value and offer him an alternative, but no way would I go on a date with him.

Stop trying to make OP a villain. His gut isn’t misleading him.[/quote]

[b]Except he asked to meet her as a friend [/b]and she is actively looking for friends.  She doesn't have to say no, she wasn't cheating on OP or trying to.  And she went the extra step of bringing a third person and talking up her boyfriend.  OP isn't a villain so much as extremely insecure and in the process of torpedoing his relationship over this.[/quote]

Right. Who said this? She did right? Why do you go on a date with a new friend of the opposite sex? Why would you go on a dinner date? Did she get a babysitter or did op watch her kid for her? Why not do a playdate with the kids and talk? Because it was a date. Time to break up. [/quote]

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