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[quote=Anonymous]As a woman who was also asked out a lot and had male and female friends and some male friends who were attracted me to and said so and I found ways to keep the friendship while they knew dating was never an option but their dignity was intact:

1. My boyfriend in my twenties hated when people were attracted to me, blamed me, was an asshole to them, punched one in a bar. And he didn't really love me. He was just an egomaniac and wanted me to be his property. Broke up.

2. My husband, of 12 years and going, is extremely cool and actually flattered when men are attracted to me. I tell him about everything and we are delighted about it together. I hang out with whoever I want to but Im not a cheating type and so have never cheated.

If you want to be with someone who is attractive and open and gregarious, this is part of the territory. People will be attracted to her. She has strategies for dealing with it. You need to have some internal strategies so you are not always feeling insecure. And decide whether or not you trust her and trust your relationship.

do you have the fortitude to be in a relationship with a desirable woman?

If i were her right now, i would be extremely wary of continuing with you -- this is a person who knows what it is lke to be in a controlling relationship and knows how to get out of that situation.[/quote]

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