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I noted earlier that this is not necessarily true. Familiarity with a person comes with love and trust. When a person feels truly loved by their spouse and has a strong trust in that person, good and frequent sex is much more likely.

Any woman in a good marriage I’ve ever talked to much prefers the person she has known well and been intimate with for years over sme new guy. I don’t doubt that women in troubled marriages might want someone new; she probably doesn’t feel love and trust with the one she’s with if the rest of the marriage is not as happy as it could be.

Familiarity + love + trust = good sex. Every time. 
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For a lot of women, I think familiarity, love, and trust ends up making the husband feel a little like her brother. Not sexy. Just familiar and comfortable. Like an old shoe. The reality is that for most women, there's probably a sweet spot where she loves and trusts him but he's also not too familiar. So, sex in that (pulling numbers out of my ass a little here) 1-5 year range is probably the best. Sex after 10 years often just isn't worth the bother. [/quote]

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