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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a DH, I've read through most of these responses and want to share some thoughts for discussion:
 - What OP is talking about is not multi-tasking, it is executive functioning (as a previous poster said is "adulting")
 - On the topic of taking care of the household, yes, in general, women do pick up more than half of the workload
 - Everyone has an opinion on why this is and I would like to offer up another generalization that men don't care as much about household stuff as women
 - For example, most men don't care that there are dirty dishes in the sink overnight, or that there is half eaten food on the kitchen table, or that the laundry didn't get done (what's wrong with wearing a wrinkled shirt mindset)
 - But for those things that a DH cares about (work, pooping, hobbies, etc) most men are on point which suggests that they do not care about other things that bother women
 
The question shouldn't be "why my DH can't do X" but rather it is how to make a man (your DH) care about what you care about.  [/quote]

They also don’t cAre about it the next day or the next.

It becomes a game of Chicken: will my wife or the sitter or a visiting grandmother wash these leftover dirty dishes for me before I have to a few days later..?..

Meanwhile your kids absorb the same bad, slob habits. Because if your spouse can’t remember to do jack or is too lazy or selfish, he sure won’t be prompting them to.[/quote]

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