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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear God.  It's a butt. Everyone is so sad and angry because every Mole hill is turned into a mountain.

Now is a good learning opportunity about how to confront people and talk about what your boundaries are. But I disagree with the posters who think she should feel victimized here. Infact, I would applaud her for being so resilient and keeping things in perspective.  It wasn't right.  It's her body and no one has a right to touch it without her permission. 
But an immature fool showed off to his stupid friends by pinching a butt. Meh. Life goes on.[/quote]
Of course life goes on, you dumba$$. No one said her life was over or that she needs therapy. FFS.

But this is not a harmless prank.  If it was so harless why the f* do you think she told her father and she was embarrassed by it?

It's no wonder we still have male predators in our society. People like you think it was a harmless prank, and boys should just be allowed to get away with sh1t like this.

I have a teen son, and [b]if he did this[/b], you bet he'd be in huge trouble.[/quote]

Of course.   But should he still be in trouble if he DIDN'T do it?   Because that's what many on this thread are advocating for.[/quote]
Then if he saw it, he should say something, otherwise, yes, he's complicit.

If a guy sees a woman being sexually assaulted by his friend, should he say something?

Obviously, pinching a girl's bottom is not as bad as rape, but that kind of contact is considered "sexual assault". So, what you are saying is that a boy should turn a blind eye to a girl being sexually assaulted by his friend.

When the whole Kavanaugh thing happened, I recall reading an article about how men anonymously posted about either witnessing the sexual assault or being the assaulter, though at the time, they didn't think it was considered assault, ie, touching a women without her consent.

One guy said that he knew that his friends were doing something bad behind closed doors to a girl who was drunk but he didn't do or say anything, didn't even check to see if she was ok the next day.  He now realizes that he is part of the problem.

You people who think a boy who sees his friends doing this but shouldn't do anything about it or say anything are also part of the viscious circle. Society keeps saying to these boys that it's ok to touch a girl like that without her consent.[/quote]

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