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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I lived in London suddenly everyone wanted to visit me.  I lived in Germany, same thing.

Isn't that odd? :P[/quote]

Do Not Lie!! Tell them the truth!!! If they don't like it, oh well!! They are adults, ENTITLED JERKS,(THOSE MAKING SMART REMARKS SOUND LIKE YOU ARE THE TYPE TO GO UNWELCOMED, NOT CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELVES..IT IS NOT THE HOSTS JOB TO BABYSIT YOU!!! YOU ARE INVITING YOURSELFNOT THE HOST INVITING YOU!! YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE THERE WHEN NO ONE IS HOME AND MISS MANNERS WOULD SAY YOU ARE RUDE..YOU DO NOT INVITE YOURSELF ANYWHERE!!! EVER!!!! I AM OLD SCHOOL, YOU DO NOT IMPOSE YOUR WILL ON OTHERS!!! 
Sorry I just don't understand the way some people think..Guess I am old and have a different set of values.. And OP stop letting people ALL PEOPLE DICTATE YOU LIFE YOUR HOUSE TO YOU!! AND YES DEPENDING ON WHAT YOUR ANXIETY LEVEL IS...NO ONE CAN TELL YOU..ITS UP TO YOU!!  I am physically unable to to do a lot and for me to have to clean up after people who are capable of cleaning up after themselves but choose not to..YOU WOULD NEVER COME BACK..MY STRESS LEVEL WOULD BE A MILE HIGH AND I WOULD BE BLOWING A HEAD GASKET!! :roll:  :evil:  :mrgreen:  :shock:  :thumbdown: [/quote]

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