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[quote=Anonymous]my dh does many of these and for most i've adapted b/c endlessly nagging someone to do things (even entirely reasonable things!!!) is more damaging to a relationship

- - turn off the lights when they leave a room — ** I've switched us to renewable energy so i don't worry about environmental impact, looked up cost of leaving lightbulbs on (its very low) so stopped caring about money, installed switches that can be controlled by phone so i can turn off the 10000 left on lights at once when i leave the house or go to bed
- close the doors during the middle of summer - ** shut it myself if it's opened long mainly b/c the bugs coming in drives me nuts
- hang wet towels instead of throwing them on the bed. -** got my own distinct towels that he is not allowed to touch. throw his piles of wet towels on his pillow if they're left in my area.  give zero thoughts to whether he has clean towels in the bathroom, provide no help if he doesn't and calls from shower
- not leave the kitchen sink just running while they fill the dishwasher
 ** turn off faucet if its aggregious 
- refill the Brita when they empty it
- empty the trash when its full instead of smashing more in until the bag breaks ** ties and take out of trashcan close to full trashbags. leave on kitchen floor for him to deal with
- leaves used dental floss in the shower
- doesn't replace TP when emptied **get large TP holders for bathroom so its rare we fully run out.

for similar things (eg not putting away his clean clothes) i just do whatever work is needed for it to not bug me (shove the whole wad of clothes in one of his drawers, no folding or organization)[/quote]

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