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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got married at 24. Still happily married 16 years later.

At the time, I remember feeling like an adult. My H is 3.5 years older than me (we met when I was a freshman and he was a senior in college). By the time we married 5 years later, we both had masters degrees, I had a job offer, he had a good paying job, and he had 100k in savings to put down on our first house. This early start in real estate got us on a solid financial path as we climbed the property ladder in DC, so there is that side benefit.

However, it seems today that people mature much slower than they used to and most people are not ready to marry, buy a house, or have kids until at least their early thirties, if not later.[/quote]

I don’t think it has anything do with “ maturing slower”. Many people realize they would rather enjoy their twenties, focus on their career, or wait for the right one. [b]There is nothing wrong with waiting until your thirties to get married, [/b]buy a house, or have kids. It has nothing to do with maturity. Some people want to explore their carefree and childfree twenties. [/quote]

[b]Your chances of divorce go up 5% each year after 32 that you wait to get married.[/quote][/b]

I think these numbers are skewed by those entering the marriage market for a 2nd time. If you've already divorced once, you're very likely going to divorce again.

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