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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here, one of the big problems growing up in a conservative religion is that there is so much pressure to marry and have a family. So people, like my husband, never have a chance to explore their sexuality. It’s either repress it and get married to fit in or live your truth and be forced out of the church.[/quote]
And often, become exiled from your cultural society as well. Find a new one. Filled with people like “you”.

It’s heartbreaking, I’m going my part to change the expectations and role of family seeing something nee and different. I’ve watched a sibling experience e this and it had been heartbreaking the journey.

Then again - he isn’t married. So — a little less complexity. ;)[/quote]

I literally got into an argument with one family member about how being gay is not a lifestyle choice but it is an innate sexual orientation that cannot be changed. He kept saying it was a temptation that they needed to overcome. [/quote]

This is when I introduce the argument for jealousy, envy, sexual formication, greed, racism, poverty, oppression, and condemnation. All are subject to the same law. Not to dismiss the law — but look at the definition of fulfillment (hint: obedience in love of self and neighbour above else including gaity. Sin is not a condition for the access to grace we all have that we couldn’t earn or work for with perfection if we tried. So let’s start focus on and move from there. Faith requires it, yes?[/quote]

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