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[quote=Anonymous]I am the PP who divorced the guy hooking up with men from Craigslist. I just wanted to add that it's not as clear-cut as "is he gay and lying to OP" or not. My ex seems to genuinely believe that having sex with men doesn't mean he's attracted to men and therefore he's still 100% straight. I dont think he's gaslighting me, I think he's gaslighting himself. And it's even more perplexing in my case, because his family is liberal and there's no pressure to stay closeted. So OP's husband might truly not consider himself gay, might be telling "his" truth if he denies being gay, and might still be engaging in behavior that is dangerous to OP. That's why I hesitate to encourage OP to keep her head in the sand. I only found out my ex's extracurricular activities because he gave me an STD. His reason for not using protection was that all of the guys were straight and married and therefore not promiscuous. *insert alllll the roll-eyes*[/quote]
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