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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine my situation, OP: I'm the DW, I work full time, did the bulk of childcare/household management. And I still couldn't get laid! DH didn't think he should throw me a bone more than every week or so, even with me carrying the load. I wanted the sex and intimacy as a form of relaxation and "reward" for bringing home the bacon, frying it up in a pan.  If he didn't want it, we just didn't have it.

Finally, after almost 8 years of this, I told him that I wanted more sex.  I told him I wasn't going to stop working or ask him to do more for the kids and the house, but that one way or another, from him, an affair or a divorce/new relationship, I was going to get more sex. We were almost 40 at the time, and that finally scared him into considering why he'd rather "relax" than have sex.  He also lost 20 pounds.  TBH, I know he'd still be happier with sex only 5 or 6 times a month, but we have it most months 8 or 10 times.  Not perfect, but better.  Some people are just lazy, even about sex.[/quote]

I admire you for having the guts to stand up and tell this to a partner.[/quote]

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