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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His wife wants to have a good marriage[/quote]

Sure, after a decade of alientation and a threat of divorce. Convenient timing.

[quote] Besides how he has been in his marriage, I am sure there are times he has wronged other people.  His parents, his friends, girlfriends, strangers...what if they all held him completely responsible for his shortcomings?  What if everyone he has ever offended came back and demanded their pound of flesh?[/quote]

I'm sorry, but comparing the victim of 10 years or emotional abuse to a stranger takes offense is, well, offensive. Unlike a slighted stanger, a spouse takes vows. A spouse who deliberately rejects the affections of his/her spouse for the better part of 10 years is beneath contempt and is entitled to none of the partnership that is the foundation of a marriage.

She chose, again and again, to denigrate the marriage. She created inequality in the marriage. And he's supposed to wake her up in the middle of the night and apologize to her?

I suppose he should also apologize when she pulls a muscle from laughing at how pathetic he is.[/quote]

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