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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Shut up 15:04. You were the sinner in your marriage and your husband sounds like a pussy. Lets see how long your perfect marriage lasts.

Look, if the OP can't forgive his wife in some Disney moment, the solution is COUNSELING. This marriage is full of unspoken crap and they need to TALK. What if his wife is genuinely unhappy having sex but is pretending because she doesn't want divorce? What if there's some medical reason that she's lost her libido? Should she lie back and think of England for the next 10 years as a good wife?

For fuck's sake, no wonder most of you people have terrible marriages. Stop believing in fairy tales and disney moments and go to counseling and communicate for the sake of your fucking children. Unspoken expectations, resentments and unilateral decisions have poisoned this marriage. His wife is 75% to blame for withholding, OP is 25% to blame for not setting a counseling ultimatum 8 years ago. Hell, 5% of that is not setting it NOW.

OP and all the other unhappy people in sexless marriages here: stop believing that there is some magical easy way to become happy again. It won't happen through some magical moment, or the perfect lingerie, or doing the dishes, or your husband getting the perfect job. It won't happen through revenge affairs. It won't happen through wearing the clock of martyrdom. It'll happen when you start acting like a full partner in your relationship, not some battered wife, and demand respect and communication from your partner.

Go to therapy yourself and then DEMAND your partner join you. Be the grown up.[/quote]

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