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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People who are bored after 20 years or so, what do you think is gonna happen 20 years into your new relationship? I’m genuinely curious. The passion settles down for everyone. Living with someone and experiencing their every high and every low is draining, of course there is no spark anymore, so you just leave relationship after relationship as you get bored?[/quote]

The valid point you made is exactly why I can't understand the appeal of wanting to get married to someone else after you and DH or DW have successfully raised your kids. I can totally see separating from your co-parent and starting a new relationship, but wouldn't it make more sense to stay with the new person only as long as you both want to and then agree to move on if the feelings of one person change? If you do not have kids together, why would you want to be with the same person for the rest of your life? (I am not including the 5 percent of "star couples" who are brought together by destiny for everlasting love.) [/quote]

FINANCES would be the main reason to split for wealthy people who don't want to share fortune with a partner they grew up bored with.
My soon to be ex husband blindsided me with divorce request. The main reason is financial: he's built a successful business venture abroad and didn't disclose his financial interest there. He has proxies in Liechtenstein holding his stock until he divorces and doesn't need to split it. At the same time, he is trying to split our US business. The venture company was built during our 16 years long marriage. We are going to have a bitter divorce with discovery[/quote]

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