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[quote=Anonymous]There, PP, does that clarify things for you?

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"So what does being "open to children" mean to you?"

Miracle of God, and all that.[/quote]

OP here to own my words.  Yes, I am "open to children," "open to life."

What that means for faithful Catholics is simply that every act of sex is open to the possibility of life resulting.  It does not mean trying to have as many kids as possible, or that sex is only to be enjoyed when there is a high likelihood of pregnancy.  Not at all.  It means God designed sex to be unitative and procreative, inseparably so, and it needs to be respected as such.  So couples may use fertility awareness, but they may not use "contra"-ception--artificial means to inhibit or destroy natural conception.

Full justice to this beautiful concept cannot be done here, but that's a brief attempt to clear up any confusion.

Living out God's plan for sex will result in great joy, but also require great virtue.  There may be infertility, or recurrent miscarriages, or many babies close together, or many periods of chastity.  You never know.  And how you deal with the crosses you bear is something you need to answer to God for--but He will always give you the graces to endure, and you can trust He won't give you a scorpion when you ask for bread.

I have had great joy and great suffering in the gift of my fertility, and I try to thank God for all of it. That is what I am called to do, but it can be hard.  I'm only human, and I have my wants, and it is difficult to say "Thy will, not mine, be done."

On a practical note, some women welcome huge families, and some women fear them, and some women change their mind along the way.  It's a work in progress.  For me, I love my huge family, and I always hoped I would be blessed with many children, but I know that is a special gift I have--for many faithful Catholics, it is a huge struggle.

I had another thought, but it will have to wait until the kids are in bed--husband's train is here...[/quote][/quote]

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