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[quote=Anonymous]I used to work 60-70 hours when I had my first baby. I did not work from home and I often got home after baby was sleeping. I eventually switched to a 9-5 job. When I had my second child, we moved for DH’s job from nyc to dc. I am now a SAHM of 3. DH earns a seven figure income so we do not need my income.

If you are the breadwinner, I think it is ok for your DH to be the default parent. I was extremely career oriented before I had kids. I am often resentful that DH was able to advance his career while I kept cutting back. DH did not pressure me to do it but I wanted to spend more time with my children. I often wonder if I would have been happier being a breadwinner and having a husband who took care of the household duties.

Op, I would not waste time wondering if your DH is resentful. If you work more and earn more, it is only natural that your DH picks up more of the household and childcare duties. My DH works 50-70 hours per week and he is a very hands on father. I am with the kids all day everyday but my children get plenty of quality time with their dad. [/quote]

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