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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When women blame men for loss of their libido it's the same as men with ED blaming their wives.

It's physical, it's almost never their partners fault. [/quote]

Sometimes, but so much of sex for women is mental. Women don't experience sex the same way men do. I'm surprised that so many hetero married men don't know that. [/quote]

And why oh why do these threads never discuss responsive desire??
For the record- my friends who don't want to have sex with thier husbands...their husbands are jerks who take them for granted 
https://www.nytimes.com/2015/02/27/opinion/nothing-is-wrong-with-your-sex-drive.html[/quote]

How old are you? I am mid 40s and none of my girlfriends want to have sex with their husbands. They aren't bad men. They are just too familiar, like family. They can't change that. But sure, if my DH was a jerk to me I wouldn't let him have sex with me. [/quote]

Yes!  This describes me.  My husband is a good guy.  We've been together for 20 years.  I no longer have any romantic desire for him at all.  I don't want to dismantle our household.  We Co-Parent okay and we still get along.  We have similar outlooks on money and politics.  I would much prefer we both outsource sex to other partners.  If one of us falls in love, we'd have to pivot in some way, but I'm willing to take that chance.[/quote]

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