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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH has to have a key to the property. Jut go ahead and plane the dates you want. Send DH to the house 2 days early to either set up or clear everyone out. Why should his brother get more say than he does? Especially for a milestone bday.

Your MIL is a pill. I'd die if she were mine.[/quote]

It’s not his brother: it’s his cousin. The co-owner is the MIL’s nephew. As in MIL and her sibling co-owned the place, the sibling died, so the nephew is now co-owner.

So you’re way out of line. [/quote]

So he think he moved up the line? After all these years they are just now supposed to pretend one of them is a second class citizen. Gross.

OP- just use the dates you want. It's not like the cousin would call the police. And if he did they tell you its a civil matter.

Call their bluff. They are being unreasonable.[/quote]

If you want DH to legally be an owner like his cousin is, MIL has to croak. Which clearly OP would not mind. [/quote]

She doesn’t have to croak — OP, her husband (and his twin brother?) can just offer to buy mom out. They won’t. Because they’re cheap moochers who want to inherit it for free after mom spends all of her money on taxes and upkeep for another 10-20 years. [/quote]

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