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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I am resentful and hurt because I never did get my "dream" wedding. Husband and I were not making a lot of money and neither of our families could afford to help us. I compromised as I wanted to marry my husband and years later we are happy and making more money than we could ever have dreamed. I still am sore about not having a "dream wedding" especially as I watch other people and now my own  sister get to do the same.

I don't even care about her dream wedding. I am just hurt that she would get the same venue I had specifically dreamt of and had an attachment to. It is an old historic house and those kinds of things are not even her "thing." They were talking of booking their wedding at a fancy hotel... and now they switched to this venue.

She also has a history of seemingly one-upping me. Or that is how it has always felt to me. We do not have the best relationship. If I do x she'll need to to x but bigger and better.

But ugh. What can I do, I'll show up and try to have a nice time.

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Get over yourself. Maybe she wasn't able to book a hotel venue because of lack of availability, or pandemic restrictions, or whatever. Or maybe she simply watched "Bridgerton," wanted a ye olde house vibe, and remembered that lovely house you mentioned that one time.

You know, the one that...cranks out weddings? Because it's a popular wedding venue?

You didn't invent this place. Like, you didn't visit some historic house and get the genius idea that you could have your wedding there. It's a known wedding venue.

I hope she has a fabulous day without a sourpuss sister trying to ruin everything.

And, also? NO ONE OWES YOU A WEDDING. DH and I paid for our weddings. Like grown-ups. Because it's not the 1800s, and people don't get married at 19 anymore.[/quote]

OP here. Sure lady. DH and I paid for our own wedding at 26-27. My sister will be 31 when married and the entire production is funded by her rich in laws. All she has to do is show up. [/quote]

Good for her!

I hope it's the best wedding ever. I'm glad she attracted a fabulous man who has a fabulous, rich family. Maybe it's because she doesn't have a lemon-face and a stank attitude.[/quote]

You are mean and a bully. [/quote]

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