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[quote=Anonymous]When my kids were born, I stayed 20-25+ for at least a year after each one. I eventually lost most of the weight once I was no longer breastfeeding and could leave kids for longer stretches. If she has a 10 month old, please be patient and supportive . It is so hard to lose weight with each subsequent kid bc you have less and less time. If my DH had said anything about my weight, I’d have been totally crushed, and I’d likely always have that insecurity in the back of me mind even years later. So glad he never went that route and gave me positive reinforcement. Obviously at 42 I don’t look the same as I did at 29, so have some grace. Our bodies change as we age. Child birthing and aging do that. [/quote]
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