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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - can you propose that after your wife maxes out her 401K that all of her salary goes to the loan payments, and that essentially you live on her salary. Make a detailed plan for her of payments and that when you reach x she quits and lives off your salary or finds a job that fits her better. I agree that you should not feel ashamed; it will be toxic to your marriage. It sounds like neither of you feel heard. Sit her down and ask her to tell you her fears. Listen and validate. Then ask her to do the same. Then, throw out the solution like above or something else. Propose that you have a joint problem you need to fix jointly, which is true. GL![/quote] This is a good plan. Try to live off just your salary and have your wife throw her entire income at her student loans.[/quote]
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