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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]No one is denying reality. [/b]I am not going to respond to anymore posts. Every time someone asks I question, and I respond, it seems people are making up scenarios or assuming I am feeling certain things.

All I asked in my first post...is did a dodge I bullet. I have had several "I miss you texts" since the break up and that is why I asked.

Thanks. Signing off.[/quote]
Responders here are not denying the reality that you are obsessed with this guy and keep wanting to dissect what went wrong. The answer is clear. He was not that into you. You are WAY more invested in the relationship than you keep vehemently denying you were. No one who is not invested would comtinue to argue over all these pages about his supposed reasons.

Get some counseling before getting involved with someone again.  [/quote]

I do not know why answering questions of others is considered obsession. I am not dissecting. Again—back to the first post was asking if I dodged a bullet because actions do not match words and a lack of understanding of the situation. I only came on here to ask if I dodged a bullet ...meaning would this be doomed anyway and if he returns if I should follow my instinct to decline. I feel like people read what they want to read. I guess posters here should not answer responder’s questions for more info because it really creates assumptions that are not there. I said pages ago that the very first responses are what I needed to hear. Somehow I end up getting vilified the longer posts go on. [/quote]

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