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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No amount of marriage counseling or any other counseling is going to make your husband not gay. Forbidding him from communicating with his male friends is not going to make him not gay.

ideally, you both accept that he is gay, end this marriage, coparent the kids if you have them, and move on with your lives, hopefully with partners that make you happy.[/quote]

I was in your situation OP and I agree with above poster.  I spent 12 month and $1000s on counseling and it was a waste of time. Therapist don’t really know what they are dealing with in these situations.  You might have a more constructive discussions here

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My friend was the straight spouse getting cheated on by her closeted husband. Counselling just prolonged the pain. It honestly is simple, OP- you have sexual problems because you aren't a man. Maybe he is Bi/Pan but honestly- he's just not that in to you. He's just holding on to the marriage because he's terrified of what the world will think of him. Sorry, honey. You need to talk to a lawyer- you won't necessarily have to contribute 50/50 to a household.

Marriage has to be based on trust and openness. Will you ever be able to trust him again? If you want to stay together for money reasons then you would be better off opening the marriage. Your anger isn't going to force him to want to have sex with you.

And for the record- I am Bi/Pan myself and we can be faithful and monogamous! We aren't all cheaters. 
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