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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do not quit your job. The lifetime earnings hit you will take for a resume gap as a woman is not worth it if you actually need the income. In home daycare is your answer. It’s like a nanny share that is never in your home. In VA they are registered/ licensed and you can pay them legally while keeping your clearance. [/quote] +1 Don't quite unless he has a MASSIVE life insurance policy bequeathed to a joint trust for which you two and you two alone are trustees. Other situation where it's ok to quit is if you have a huge and guaranteed financial windfall to you (e.g. a massive trust or guaranteed inheritance). If you tap out of the job market, you lose 1) experience 2) your edge 3) your income 4) 401K $ and 5) social security benefits over the long-term. [/quote]
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