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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.  
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OP here, I am not narrow minded. In fact, I have raised the idea of exploring non-monogamy because I don't see the situation as sustainable long-term. But anyway, I wouldn't have been suspicious if she mentioned it as a "hey honey" but more that I found it. Zero chance she did it to spice things up.

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You are half right. Yes: the situation is not sustainable. No: she does not get to vote on your non-monogamy solution to her uninterested-sexless problem. If she’s not on board with a normal active sex life, simply declare your marriage open. Asexuals cannot have fidelity when partnered with a normal person.[/quote]

Sounds like OP's wife has already declared it open... for her. Come on now. No one grooms for themselves. [/quote]

I do? Sexless marriage (DH not into it) I still randomly groom. Just makes me feel more attractive even though I have no intention of cheating/meeting someone during covid and my DH will never even look[/quote]

Shit, just read my own post above. This is so pathetic... fwiw we are in therapy, next step is me asking for open marriage and if he refuses then considering divorce when kids are a bit older [/quote]

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