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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband looks the other way on my cheating. I do 90% of everything for the kids and household, make more than he does. We went to therapy; he was told to "step it up." He wants to sleep 9 to 10 hours a day, and do nothing but work and ride his bike and joke around with the kids. He and I didn't live together before marriage so I didn't realize that sex once or maybe twice a week for 15 minutes was perfectly fine for him. I'm the alpha, he's the follower but it really benefits him so he ignores the nights I "go out with the girls."[/quote]

Why are you married to him? It doesn't seem that you respect him. You seem to not have issue attracting other partners. You are obviously financially secure. So what is the reason for having a marriage that you are not loyal in? No snark, honest question. No one ever answers this.[/quote]

Appearances. Mutual friends. Intertwined life together. Kids who enjoy seeing us at the same time. and the big one: I don't want him to have half the money we've accumulated. I've sacrificed a lot and I'm not giving it up so I can pursue someone more perfect for me.[/quote]

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