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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My SIL gave me a body composition scale and fit bit for my bday.  Ds was a year old and I had struggled hard with PPD after he was born. She knew, though I don't think she knew how bad it was.  Anyways, I initially lost all the baby weight plus 10 pounds.  And then gained 50, some of which was water weight from meds.  My SIL is very much into fitness , no dairy gluten and sugar type of person.   She used to make snide comments about what people ate or looked like, but I could ignore it.

I had been dreading my bday.  I had the PPD under control but my self esteem was very low.  DH and my therapist thought it would be good to have this party.   I invited SIL because I felt I had to but figuring she wouldn't come.  But nope she did.  So I opened up a scale and fit bit in front of 25 friends and family with her saying that now I could take care of "all of this"  while air portraying a fat silhouette.  It was humiliating.

That was a couple of years ago.  I've since lost the weight and mentally am in a great place.  Dhs brother has finally realized she sucks and is getting a divorce. [/quote]

Did anyone say anything?! That’s horrible.[/quote]

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