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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a PP who's been ostracized. It's been 4 yrs for me. Question for you all. A member of that old group keeps reaching out about hanging out. I know she's still part of the group. She's on the fringes, and I don't think she really knows what went down/is a pollyanna type, but I also 100 percent agree with prior posters who says that you have to cut all these people out as they were complicit and you'll never trust them. What to do? I have been ignoring the texts/social media tags. I am not a cruel person, so it feels cruel to ignore/ghost her. But, I also don't want to say "hey, you're friends with terrible people who treated me horrifically, so I will never feel warm-fuzzy about you again." What to do? Complication: She lives in my neighborhood and kids go to same school. [/quote] I would meet her for a coffee and hear what she has to say. She may be well intentioned and actually like you as a person and miss you as a friend. Imagine that.[/quote]
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